To be changed by ideas was pure pleasure. But to learn ideas that ran counter to values and beliefs learned at home was to place oneself at risk, to enter the danger zone. Home was the place where I was forced to conform to someone else’s image of who and what I should be. School was the place where I could forget that self and, through ideas, reinvent myself. Bell Hooks
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Ideas and beliefs that do not conform to the values and beliefs we grew up with can be dangerous. The process of changing them, however, is pure pleasure. Ideas and beliefs that run counter to the values we were raised with should be embraced and taken advantage of to help us grow as individuals.

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